Monday, September 26, 2016
On The Other Side Of Grief (Stage 5)
The next stage is acceptance. This is like a sunrise. The grieving person begins to get on with life. Energy and interests, pleasure and joy gradually return. If the grief work has been done for the bereaved person and the helper, there is a new sense of strength and purpose, and the relationship is deeper and wider than before. Both feel OK about the relationship and so are able to connect in new, nourishing, and more productive ways. Both the bereaved person and the friend have to make a myriad of choices to achieve a stage of acceptance. One of the hard lessons learned throughout the healing is that adults often have to learn how to pick the choice that sucks the least.